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Redefining Success in Your 20s

1. Don’t Chase “Success” Blindly

What you think success looks like in your early 20s—money, titles, recognition—often changes. Instead of chasing what looks good on paper, figure out what feels good to you. Learn to define success on your own terms.

2. Time is More Valuable Than You Think

Your 20s feel endless, but time compounds. What you do consistently now—habits, health, skills, investments—will shape your 30s and beyond far more than you expect.

3. Learn How to Manage Money

Money stress will eat away at every other part of your life if you’re not careful. Learn the basics of budgeting, saving, and investing early. Start with something simple, like automating a savings habit.

4. It’s Okay to Quit (Jobs, Relationships, Paths)

Sticking with the wrong thing “because you started it” wastes more time than walking away and starting over. Learn to tell the difference between a rough patch and a dead end.

5. Take Care of Your Body

Your body in your 30s starts sending invoices for how you treated it in your 20s. Build habits of sleep, movement, and moderation—your future self will thank you.

6. Be Kind, Not Just Nice

Being “nice” often means avoiding conflict, but being kind sometimes means being honest, clear, and firm. People respect boundaries—even when they don’t like them in the moment.

7. Don’t Be Afraid to Be Alone

Loneliness feels scary, but solitude is powerful. Use time alone to really learn who you are, what you value, and what you want. Don’t rush into people, places, or plans just to fill the silence.

8. Read. Seriously.

Books can give you the perspectives of people decades ahead of you. Read about philosophy, psychology, finance, relationships—even fiction. It shapes your inner world.

9. Skills > Degrees

Degrees might get your foot in the door, but your skills and how you apply them are what will matter in the long run. Learn how to learn.

10. Most People Are Figuring It Out, Too

Everyone looks like they have it together, but most are winging it, just like you. Comparison is a thief; focus on progress, not perfection.

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